git rev-list --quiet is slow in a large repo

### search you tried in the issue tracker

is:issue state:open rev-list

### describe your issue

`git rev-list --quiet` takes 5 seconds in our repo. Please replace it with `git cat-file -e `.

### pre-commit --version

4.5.0

### .pre-commit-config.yaml

```yaml
(sadly I can't share)
```

### ~/.cache/pre-commit/pre-commit.log (if present)

_No response_